Hari abantu bakunze kwemeza ko imico y’Ikirundi yoba ihohotera umukenyezi ; ndetse hakaba n’abakwiragiza ibinyoma ko kera, bishitse umuntu agafata ku nguvu uwundi, yiraramangira ataco yinona. Ariko mu vy’ukuri, si uko vyari bimeze. Umwigisha Patiri Diriyano Ntabona araduha umuco.
Kwubaka
Muragabe, abubakana batarakwiza imyaka bubakira gusambura
Ukwabirana ni ibanga rihuza umugabo n’umugore bavyishakiye, kandi bakabicisha mu mategeko. Iyo bishitse iryo banga rigapfundikwa hagati y’umusore canke inkumi batarakwiza imyaka yo kwabirana, urukundo n’urugo rwabo birashika bikamara akanya urume rumara. Ivyo bigaheza bigatera ingorane mu kibano. Tubirabire hamwe.
“Kwubaka nkiri isugi vyangiriye akamaro n’ingaruka”
Umwigeme agiye kwubaka akiri isugi, aba yumva ko ashishiriye iteka ryiwe n’iry’umuryango akomokamwo. Kukaba nka ko, n’imigenzo y’ikirundi irabiha agaciro. Ariko nk’uko vyashikiye Aline*, ivyo gusa ntibikwiye kugira uwo bubakanye amwubahirize. Hari uwo vyashitse, aho kubona ko yagumije ibanga, ahubwo […]
Ikiyago : karahara mu muryango ntibubaka
Igihe haca akareresi kuri Yaga kavuga ivy’ikiyago mu rugo, hari benshi bitwengeye, bakabona umenga ni ibikino. Ariko rero, hari abandi vyakoze ku mutima, maze babona ahubwo ko ibiri muri iyo reresi bisa n’ivyo baciyemwo. Baciye batugira ku muriri ukuntu bahatswe […]
Kuki bitaboneka neza iyo umuhungu mugufi akundanye n’umukobwa muremure ?
Ivyigwa bimaze kugirwa ahatandukanye kw’isi vyasanze umugabo ari we muremure kurusha umugore wiwe ku bice birenga 90% vy’abubakanye. N’aha iwacu turabibonesha ijisho. None vyoba biva kuki ? Umuhungu mugufi yikundaniye n’umukobwa muremure ni iciro ry’umugani ? Imvo n’imvano.
“Uwo nita umuvuzi niwe yantwaye ubusugi”: intahe
Babita ba rumenyi. Bamyeho, kuva na kera na rindi. Ababitura baba biteze inyishu ku ngorane zibahanze. Ariko, hari abizera gusomera bagasanga barumanze. Uno mwigeme aratwiganira ingene umugabo yagiye arondera atari we yaronse.
Guhemukira umukunzi : biri kune bikaba gutanu
Abantu benshi bibaza ko kuvanga umukunzi ari ukuryamana n’uwundi gusa. Ivyigwa vyagizwe vyerekana ko abantu benshi bagiye barerekana ko guhemukira umukunzi biri ubwoko bwinshi, bivanye na nyene kubigirirwa. Ivyo umwe yita guhemukirwa, awundi usanga ashobora kubibona ibisanzwe.
«Ng’uku uko naraye nahukanye kubera amatora yo ku wa 20 Rusama»
Hari ingo zibanye nabi kubera ukudahuza muri ibi canke biriya ; harimwo n’ivyiyumviro vya poritike. Aline*, ivyamubayeko ntibigira izina. Yari abanye neza n’umugabo wiwe, gushika kw’igenekerezo rya 20 Rusama, aho vyayangaye.
Ukuvyara intahekana biratitura urukundo mu bubakanye
Abantu benshi iyo babonye uwuvyaye intahekana, bagira impuhwe kubera amagara y’umuvyeyi n’ibibondo. Ahandi na ho usanga bagira impuhwe kubera ibijanye n’uburyo, kuko kurera abana bikenera vyinshi. Ariko iruhande y’urukundo n’ubutunzi, bishobora gufutanya urukundo hagati y’umugabo n’umugore.