Mu gisagara, kugira habe urubanza rw’ubugeni hategerezwa kuba inzoga nyinshi za Brarudi, ikibanza kiberamwo urubanza kigakotwa, amajambo arambira, abantu bakagira inyota n’inzara, urubanza rukabera kure bikagorana gutaha, n’ibindi. Hagati mu gihugu hoho si uko. Mu buryo buba buhari, urubanza ruba […]
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Amakuba yo kwubakana n’uwudashobora kugira imibonano mpuzabitsina
Mu nkingi zikomeza urugo, amabanga y’abubatse aza imbere. Bishitse umuntu akubakana n’uwufise ingorane zo kugira imibonano mpuzabitsina, ni amagorwa atagira izina. Muribuka ka karirimbo ngo: “ Sinazanywe n’ibigori, n’iwacu nasize vyeze, nazanywe n’ibigoye”. Ng’iyi intahe y’uwo vyashikiye.
Hoba hari akamaro ko “gupfuhira” uwo mwubakanye ?
“Gupfuha”, ni bimwe mu bishikira abubakanye mu buzima bwabo. Hari abavuga ko vyoba biva ku rukundo rwinshi, abandi na bo bakabona ko vyoba biva ku bindi. Turabe hamwe ico abantu batandukanye babivugako.
Ibintu 5 wokwirinda kugira ugwize amahirwe yo kuronka urukundo rw’ukuri
Baba ab’igitsina gabo canke ab’igitsina gore, abato n’abakuze, abatunzi n’abakene, abakomeye n’abarwaye, mu butandukane bwabo, bose barakeneye urukundo nk’uko bivugwa n’umuhinga Alexandre Cormont. Nawe ukaba urukeneye kandi rw’ukuri, uririnda ibi bintu bitanu.
Gushimisha uwo mwubakanye ku buriri: icigwa kibereye ku misore n’inkumi
Aho hambere, umusore canke umwigeme yegereje kwubaka urwiwe, umuryango waramutegura mu vyerekeye kunezereza ku buriri uwo bazokubakana. Ubu hoho biri ukundi ; kandi ingaruka zavyo nazo ntizisiba kwibonekeza.
Gutahura inkwano ukutari ko: kimwe mu bibangamiye agateka k’umukenyezi
Mu Burundi hari abagabo batari bake bafata “inkwano” nk’ikiguzi, maze bagafata ko gutanga inkwano bibaha uburenganzira bwo gufata nabi abo bubakanye. Iyo akaba ari ingendo itari nziza, aho abantu bamwebamwe bikika inyuma y’imico n’imigenzo mu gukandamiza abandi.
“Umukunzi wanje yicunguje umubiri kugira ndonke akazi”: intahe
Ikibazo c’ikena ry’akazi kirahanze urwaruka mu gihugu cacu. Bati: inzara ni inzeragiza ; Ariane* yahisemwo kuryamana n’umukoresha wiwe kugira umukunzi wiwe bimirije kurushinga aronke akazi, ariko uwo mukunzi abimenye ntiyakiriye neza ako “kigoro.”
«Naranguye amabanga mpuzabitsina “bunyamaswa” none umugore ntakinyerekwa » : intahe
Amabanga y’abubatse ntiyama ari isoko rivomera ubumwe n’urukundo, na canecane iyo abayaranguye bavyifashemwo nabi. Divin*yabuze imbwa n’imbwebwe, akemeza ko icari kuzigama urukundo rwiwe na Carlene ari co caruhungabanije, kandi bimuvuyeko. Intahe.
Ntimugakinishe ibanga ryo “kwabirana”
Hari abantu batwarwa n’amaronko, bakandikanwa mu biro bijejwe inzandiko ndangamuntu, kandi bazi neza ko batazobana, nyabuna ari amayeri canke inyungu zinyegeje inyuma y’ayo masezerano. Amayeri arimwo kwubahuka cane, ashobora no kugira ingaruka.