{"id":963,"date":"2016-09-09T09:17:56","date_gmt":"2016-09-09T09:17:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elodiemuco.wordpress.com\/?p=963"},"modified":"2017-02-20T18:41:00","modified_gmt":"2017-02-20T17:41:00","slug":"etre-une-femme-de-30-ans-au-burundi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yaga-burundi.com\/elodiemuco\/2016\/09\/09\/etre-une-femme-de-30-ans-au-burundi\/","title":{"rendered":"Etre une femme de 30 ans au Burundi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Au Burundi (comme partout ailleurs je\u00a0pr\u00e9sume), les parents et la famille sont heureux\u00a0d\u2019accueillir un enfant, de le bercer, de le nourrir, de payer sa scolarit\u00e9 et de lui donner toute l\u2019affection qu\u2019il m\u00e9rite. Mais… jusqu\u2019\u00e0\u00a0quand?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\"30-ans-2\"Chez nous au Burundi, les femmes subissent une pression sociale ind\u00e9niable, qui s\u2019intensifie au fur et \u00e0 mesure que la trentaine approche. Etre c\u00e9libataire \u00e0 30 ans est consid\u00e9r\u00e9 comme une tare, surtout chez les femmes. Pour beaucoup, \u00e0 cet \u00e2ge, on est cens\u00e9 mener une vie \u00e9panouie en famille. La soci\u00e9t\u00e9 burundaise ne voit pas d\u2019un bon \u0153il les jeunes femmes c\u00e9libataires. Il n\u2019est pas \u00ab\u00a0normal\u00a0\u00bb, \u00e0 30 ans, de ne pas \u00eatre d\u00e9j\u00e0 cas\u00e9e ou du moins, d\u2019avoir un homme dans sa vie. Dans l\u2019imaginaire collectif, l\u2019horloge biologique est l\u2019unique priorit\u00e9 pour les femmes.<\/p>\n

Quelques t<\/strong>\u00e9<\/strong>moignages<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"30-ans-3\"Nancy, 33 ans, est toujours c\u00e9libataire.\u00a0Elle affirme que le manque de tendresse, d\u2019affection et de complicit\u00e9 sont les choses qui lui manquent le plus. Elle a v\u00e9cu deux relations qui l\u2019ont d\u00e9\u00e7ues, et aujourd\u2019hui, elle se dit r\u00e9sign\u00e9e. Elle est consciente que plus le temps passe, plus ses chances de trouver un mari s\u2019amenuisent. Quant \u00e0 la pression sociale ou familiale, elle y est maintenant habitu\u00e9e.<\/p>\n

\"30-ans-4\"Divine, quant \u00e0 elle, a 36 ans et est d\u00e9j\u00e0 m\u00e8re d\u2019un enfant de 6 ans. C\u00e9libataire, elle confie qu\u2019\u00e0 son \u00e2ge, l\u2019id\u00e9e de se marier lui est compl\u00e8tement sortie de la t\u00eate\u00a0:\u00a0\u00ab<\/em>J<\/em>\u2019<\/em>ai un bon travail, je subviens<\/em> \u00e0<\/em> mes besoins et <\/em>\u00e0<\/em> ceux de mon enfant toute seule et c<\/em>\u2019<\/em>est mieux ainsi. On peut tr<\/em>\u00e8<\/em>s bien <\/em>\u00ea<\/em>tre heureuse sans mari, la soci<\/em>\u00e9<\/em>t<\/em>\u00e9<\/em> peut dire ce qu<\/em>\u2019<\/em>elle veut. C<\/em>\u2019<\/em>est ma vie et je suis heureuse comme <\/em>\u00e7<\/em>a<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"30\"Enfin, pour Ange, 31 ans, les f\u00eates en famille sont devenues une v\u00e9ritable \u00e9preuve. Ses proches la harc\u00e8lent sur le fait qu\u2019elle ne leur a pas encore pr\u00e9sent\u00e9 un fianc\u00e9. \u00ab\u00a0<\/em>Comme si on pouvait en trouver un sur commande<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb<\/em>,\u00a0 se moque-t-elle.<\/p>\n

Au Burundi, le mariage n\u2019est pas seulement l\u2019union de deux \u00eatres. C\u2019est aussi et surtout le rapprochement de deux familles et un moyen pour acc\u00e9der \u00e0 une reconnaissance sociale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Au Burundi (comme partout ailleurs je\u00a0pr\u00e9sume), les parents et la famille sont heureux\u00a0d\u2019accueillir un enfant, de le bercer, de le… <\/p>\n

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